hi my dash is dead bc everyone is going back to school
please reblog if you’re:
-a cute blog
-a food blog (mainly sweets, if possible)
-an asian fashion blog
-a positive blog
i will follow as many as i can 8)
It’s not about the kissing, holding hands, the dates, the sex, and showing off. It’s about being with someone who makes you happy in a way that no one else can. It’s about being with someone who accepts you and your weirdness. It’s about being yourself around them and they can be their self around you.
tall people: if we are walking together please take into consideration my tiny legs. i cant keep up with you. please think of my tiny legs i dont want to be jogging to keep up with your leisurely stroll you TITANS
not at all a silly question. i’ve had self esteem issues before, im guessing 98% of humans have, so you’re in good company. there are a few things that help me.
remember that your perspective is everything. not your friends’ perspectives or your family or crush’s perspective. your perspective. try to go a week without complaining. make a list of things you like about yourself. maybe do the 100 days of happy thing. i try to be super positive on this blog and thats not always how i am in real life but its helped me a lot i think in how i deal with things/conduct myself in real life.
you can always find negative things about yourself. everyone can because no one is perfect. but if you focus instead on your strengths, you wont get bogged down in self-pity. it’ll make you a lot freer. freer is a weird word.
other people form their opinion on you based on incomplete information. you know the most about yourself. if you form your opinion of yourself based on others’ opinions of you, you’re gonna get let down. its so toxic i cant stress that enough.
try exercising. go on a run a couple times a week. maybe join a yoga class. it doesnt matter what. exercise relieves a lot of stress and ya might see results.
another helpful source of confidence i have is my God. if the Creator of the universe and nature and everything loves me and knows the number of hairs on my head, thinking my teeth are crooked becomes less of an issue idk
flood people with compliments. make eye contact. don’t be the first one to let go of a hug. push yourself to run faster and further. listen intentionally
Do it without expecting anything in return. Give generously without selfish gain
i was trying on outfits for the weekend and i think this is by far the dreamiest!!